🌻 Little wholesome tip this week: 
A reminder of some things we never need to feel guilty about huns x

Dear Margie,
Last week I just straight up and walked out of my job as it was taking too much of a toll on my mental health and they were treating me so badly. I’m now job hunting with no security and I’m wondering if I did the right thing :( I couldn’t take what they were doing any more and I needed to be out as I felt like I would never escape. Have you ever done something like this? I felt it was silly to leave without security but I’m so done xx
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Hey hun,
I’m sorry you had to go through all of that. You’re going to get two responses to this from people - they’ll either say ‘you’re crazy to leave without having another job lined up!’ or they’ll say ‘Good on ya hun!’ and going by what you’ve told me about your former workplace I’m firmly in the second category. So good on ya hun! 💕 There is a quote by a lad called Robert Tew that says: “Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy” and whenever I worry if I’m making the right decision about leaving something or someone behind - I think about that quote. A toxic workplace will never be more important than your peace of mind and mental health. Sometimes you just have to do something drastic to get yourself out of a stagnant life situation, and sometimes putting yourself in a situation where you have to start all over again shows you just how resourceful you can be! I have defo made an impulsive decision to leave a job before, but I didn’t berate myself too much about not having anything else lined up because I was open to work literally any other job until I decided what my next move was. If you need to start working again ASAP just apply for any other entry level job you can in the meantime - something to tide you over until you land the job you do want. You will have cleared up so much negative energy from your life by leaving that awful old workplace and you’ll be sure to attract lots of new opportunities. I am proud of you for standing up for your own wellbeing and putting yourself first. Everything will work out hun, big hugs 🥰 
Love your mate,
Margie xxx
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You heard Samantha right huns, from now on walk as if your nipples are headlights lighting up your catwalk 💅 …I will actually unironically be taking on this advice tho because I’m a millennial and caring about my posture is now something I’ve taken an interest in x

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Girls Next Door
There’s loadsa episodes of iconic mid 2000’s tv programme ‘Girls Next Door’ on YouTube that focuses on the then 3 girlfriends of Hugh Hefner - Holly, Bridget and Kendra. I love watching this show for the sheer 2000’s escapism, clothes and life at the Playboy Mansion - BUT having read a few ex Playmate memoirs and knowing what we do now about Hef and Playboy, you can see through the facade of it all. Holly and Bridget have a podcast called Girls Next Level where they go through each season of Girls Next Door and comment on it through a 2024 lens with no filter. I watched the episode I linked above then listened to the matching podcast episode about it, and it was eye opening to hear how creepy they thought Hef’s behaviour was in that episode, among other things like how Kendra’s mum Patti was obsessed with Hef and clearly living vicariously through her daughter. All the tea huns! x

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The Dream
You huns know I’m very anti-MLM for a number of reasons - namely cuz they’re dead predatory and people lose a LOT of money from them - so season 1 of this award winning podcast that explores why MLM’s are still so persistent in today’s world is a great listen! You can listen on Spotify, Apple or wherever you get your podcasts. Also if you really enjoy Anti-MLM content - check out the dead entertaining Elle’s poonique blog that details one hun’s awful foray into the world of MLM makeup giant Younique x

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Margie’s Question of the week 💬

Last week I asked - “Have you ever engaged in any petty theft as a child or teen, and what did you take?” and your secrets are safe with us huns! We’re not gonna rat you out to the feds x 💕

“My petty theft Margie hun was supposed to come to the grave with me— I took a tiny Juicy Bomb lipgloss by Essence worth maybe $2, and pretended to go to the change room with a shirt, whilst the whole time I just stuffed the lipgloss in my bra! Was dead nervous walking out of there hun, full on thought cops would surround me to arrest and charge me over a 10ml lipgloss xx”

“Margie girl I wish I could say my petty theft was as a child or a teen but it was actually at the ripe old age of 21 💀 I live in Seoul and we have a lot of photo booths with props/items you can borrow and wear. I picked up a pair of cute sunglasses to wear in the picture, wore them for one shot and realized they were doing Nothing for me at all. Promptly took them off and tucked them on my jean waistband to put back when we got it. Took me till I got home (an hour and a half away) to realize I still had the sunglasses on my jean waistband LMFAO. Constantly living in fear that the photo booth police are after me, but I cant even remember the booth I took them from in the first place.”

“I’m sure I’m not the only one who relates to thieving from primark just because all your mates were doing it 🤦‍♀️ Only ever stole small bits never clothes but I still feel guilty hun 🫠”

“When I was around 6 or 7 my neighbour had the biggest barbie doll collection. She had the furniture, fake foods, the little kid dolls and the grown up dolls. I would go over there everyday and play barbies with her and I was so jealous bc I didn’t have toys like that. I started a master plan that each time I went over I’d take a toy food, but then I got too confident and then I started to take the dolls! One day her mum saw the lump in my pocket and stopped me and made me show her!! I was dead embarrassed huns. I feel sooo bad looking back, I must have stolen so much stuff. Sorry hun! 😭🩷”

“When I was about 7 or 8 my mum sent me to the corner shop for the first time on my own to get a loaf of bread. I walked in, picked it up from the shelf and walked straight out with it with the pound she still gave me in my hand. My dad went back and paid for it but I was so ashamed I couldn’t got back there for ages xx”

Next week’s question is “What was the one toy you really wanted as a kid, but never got, and secretly still want as an adult?” - Hit reply to this hunmail if you’ve got an answer to share with the huns! 💓

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Thank you for all your thoughtful feedback huns, I appreciate you all more than you know 💕 Have a lush week!
Love, your mate Margie xxx